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Some parents even declared that their child should get a gift certificate for a local ice cream shop if they can't attend the event!
wow...you win-those people are crazy.

If I am invited to a wedding and then I decline to attend I dont get a free gift cert for a DJ and some cake. This is an event-you do go, you miss out.

This is why our meet the teacher is the day before school starts-too many complaints of "thats not fair we are still on vacation" so now we hold it as late s possible.

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Mshope 08-15-2019 06:34 AM

I really hate FB. I don't think I could avoid snarky responses so bless you for your patience.

The ice cream social one is just ridiculous. If someone thinks like that, I feel like there is no hope for the kid. Our school does have an orientation type of thing. However, few show up. Maybe they need to add ice cream to it!

VivianCP 08-07-2019 04:56 PM

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social media enables and magnifies the complaints that would only last seconds if the person had to write an actual note to the school or had a minute to really think about things.
Ain't that the truth!
broomrider 08-07-2019 04:27 PM

is that social media enables and magnifies the complaints that would only last seconds if the person had to write an actual note to the school or had a minute to really think about things.

Instead any dumb thing that passes through someone's mind quickly and easily gets tossed in to boil the pot. I expect there are some parents saying "yeah, my kid should get a free ice cream too" while most others are shaking their heads at the idiocy and keeping quiet.

Tori58 08-07-2019 07:33 AM

If you don't know what TBD means, it takes 5 seconds to google it. Isn't this the generation that's supposed to be amazingly technologically savvy?

Backpack stays in the classroom? I mean, I guess she could be asking whether the backpack would be in the classroom during the school day as opposed to in a locker or cubby but still. Why does it matter?

Alternate date for ice cream? Although, I have to point out that we (we as schools and educators) have created this problem. I mean, why have an ice cream social in the first place? In fact, why all these endless open houses and "meet the teacher" nights and gift bags for the students and the list goes on. I understand the need for that in 4K and K because younger kids can have separation anxiety (although I don't notice that open houses actually solve that problem) but middle school? Really? I went to a big junior high. I didn't tour the building before I went. I got a schedule and a map and there were teachers and staff in the hallways to point the way if I got lost. I was a little nervous the first day but I survived.

Kinderkr4zy 08-07-2019 05:40 AM

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Some parents even declared that their child should get a gift certificate for a local ice cream shop if they can't attend the event!
wow...you win-those people are crazy.

If I am invited to a wedding and then I decline to attend I dont get a free gift cert for a DJ and some cake. This is an event-you do go, you miss out.

This is why our meet the teacher is the day before school starts-too many complaints of "thats not fair we are still on vacation" so now we hold it as late s possible.
VivianCP 08-06-2019 07:42 PM

So, parent is taking kid on vacation, to have some great new experiences, enjoy family time & see another part of the country, but they are worried that he will miss out on a dish of ice cream? Come on, people! Giving your kid new experiences is soooo much more important. An entitled attitude, not so much.

I really don't know how you can keep calm, cool and collected on this FB page. If you do step down, good for you. If not, good luck & try to limit your time on there (which may not be possible as an admin, I understand).

Ima Teacher 08-06-2019 04:55 PM

I turned off commenting and messaging on our school FB page. I couldn’t take it anymore.

annie_g 08-06-2019 03:32 PM

Super happy to be retired!

TeacherPK6 08-06-2019 01:55 PM

Oh. my. word. That's about all I can say (particularly to the ice cream "complaint."

Peaches Pears 08-06-2019 01:22 PM

Yup.
"People be crazy," she said with a weary sigh.

I know I have posted our grade 1 teacher saying before but it is worth repeating.

It is our responsibility as grade 1 teachers to allow children to experience disappointment.

Add to it my DD's saying (she is also a teacher).

"My brother and SIL love my nephew and niece enough to say "no". I wish your parents loved you that much too."

I agree --- TBD might warrant an explanation as to meaning.
I could even understand confusion about backpacks for people new to the country and the school system but the ice cream thing. That just makes me shake my head.

PindleLou888 08-06-2019 01:08 PM

Omg about the ice cream social...saying they should get a gift cert....unbelievable. Entitled!

Clarity 08-06-2019 12:04 PM

that kid - why can't you be a little more accommodating?

Ask McDonald's to donate some coupons for free soft ice cream as a promotion. Here's your free ice cream, kids.

teabreak 08-06-2019 11:53 AM

These parents are sounding more and more entitled. That's unreal.

Violet4 08-06-2019 11:06 AM

Has me steamed as well. They're setting their kid up to be entitled and expect everything to be handed to them. So many people fail to realize that while that makes them happy as kids, eventually they will be on their own.

Lakeside 08-06-2019 10:38 AM

I can kind of understand asking what TBD means. - All of must have asked someone (or looked it up) the very first time we saw the abbreviation, but why on earth a backpack would stay at school is beyond me.

The ice cream one steams me, though! - Ignorant, you can work with, but entitled, you just can't fix.

jov 08-06-2019 09:58 AM

OMG! I'd have a very tough time answering those stupid questions/comments politely! I'm glad you're stepping down.

noonespecial 08-06-2019 09:50 AM

Ugh! I feel your pain. Reading the comments from parents reveal why we have some of the behaviors we have in school.

Ruby07 08-06-2019 09:41 AM

I'm reading through our community Facebook page (yes, the one I'm an admin for, and will be taking the advice of many of you and stepping down soon).....

One parent posted, "My child's Kindergarten teacher is listed as TBD. Who is that?" Someone else graciously explained that TBD means "to be determined", and it's due to a teacher taking a leave of absence and the sub pending board approval. Sure, that probably could have been explained in the letter, but still....

Another posted: "The supply list says to bring a large backpack. That will stay in the classroom, right?" And 2 parents responded, "yes!" WHAT!?? What good does a backpack do if it stays in the classroom? Its sole purpose is to transport things.

Our Middle School has an ice cream social one evening in August, where kids can get their schedules, tour the building and have ice cream. A parent posted, "Is there an alternate date if we can't make it?" I responded, "There is no alternate event date, but if you can't make it, you can just go to the Main Office any time after that event to pick up your child's schedule and tour the building. Otherwise, your child's schedule will be mailed to you." What followed was anger and outcries of unfairness! "My child shouldn't have to miss out on this event because we're on vacation that week!", etc. Some parents even declared that their child should get a gift certificate for a local ice cream shop if they can't attend the event!

Honestly, I'm not sure that I'm ready to go back and face these people.




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