[GraceKrispy]

I'm sorry, I don't know how I missed responding to your post over a month ago! I hope the twins are doing well? Continuing to report to the counselor and the parents is an important step. The counselor should have a program in place to work with these kids and any others). If not, I'd want to make sure the administration is aware of your concerns (as well as the parents). Teaching them with a growth mindset attitude can help, and modeling how you handle your own frustration is really important. It sounds like you've done a lot for them already! Any update on how they are doing?