[peanut21]

Create a sensory diet: At certain times, have him jump on a mini trampoline, do wall pushups, any number of things. Google sensory activities. It doesn't have to be items that you buy. He could take a walk around the school with the aide, etc. If you schedule them, then you can head off some behaviors. For instance, at 9:30, 11:30. and 1:30. etc/

Tell her that you would be remiss not to teach her child some coping strategies and to shape his behavior, other wise, he will not be learning and your job is to teach him and hold him accountable, so that he will be a productive citizen, etc, etc.