[GraceKrispy]

What a wonderful friend! So you want to pay her for her services, correct? I like eeza's ideas. Do you have any idea how much she is spending on groceries? Is she open to you asking her how much it costs and then you can give her money (or gc) above that to cover her time and planning? As far as what is reasonable, it's hard to say how because different foods costs different amounts, and grocery costs vary quite a bit around the country. When you found this person, did pay not come up?