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Poor thing! It's a shame that her parents are more supportive (I assume a step-mom is in the picture).

When does she turn 18? That will make a difference because at that point she is an adult and can make her own decisions.

Is she in danger of harming herself or others? Has she ever been 5150'd?

You say she's high functioning. Is she passing all of her classes? If not, then a 504 may be something to look at or even SPED assessment under emotional disturbance if she is really impacted.

And that therapist should be reported! That is unethical and she completely broke confidentiality. I may give a general "Johnny is actively participating in counseling" but I don't divulge anything confidential unless I have the student's consent.