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Old 01-22-2019, 05:27 AM
 
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It is with a heavy heart that i tell you Don passed away at home yesterday with me and Justin beside him. Many of you have followed our long many year's journey, so I wanted to let you know. I was blessed to be married to him for over 43 years.


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Old 01-22-2019, 05:30 AM
 
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I am so, so sorry...my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...
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Old 01-22-2019, 05:51 AM
 
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I知 so sorry. I致e been thinking of you.

One thing I learned when in a situation like yours, I did a lot grieving when I was taking care of DH at home, so I gave myself permission to feel some relief at his release. I知 still sad and miss him every day, but the DH I miss is the healthy DH. Please allow yourself to move on. (I hope this isn稚 pushy.)
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I am so very sorry to hear your news. You were blessed to have each other for over 43 years. Not many can say that. Your son Justin is an amazing man to have been with you through this journey. Your family are in my prayers. Cinda
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Oh..I am so sorry to hear about your hubs passing. Sent prayers for your comfort during this time. (((hugs)))


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Old 01-22-2019, 06:17 AM
 
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Please know that many thoughts and prayers are surrounding you and Justin now and in the days to come.
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Old 01-22-2019, 06:20 AM
 
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What sad news! I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Old 01-22-2019, 06:36 AM
 
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I am so sad for you and your family. You will continue to be in my prayers.
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Old 01-22-2019, 06:38 AM
 
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I am so very sorry. You took such good care of him through a very long illness.
You were indeed blessed by your happy marriage. Thinking of you.
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Old 01-22-2019, 07:16 AM
 
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Oh goodness, this is such sad, sad news. I'm sorry that your dear husband has passed. Soak up the love from your family as you share your special memories of Don with each other. Your family is in my thoughts.


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Old 01-22-2019, 07:35 AM
 
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I am so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers are with you.
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Old 01-22-2019, 07:43 AM
 
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I am so sorry! You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 01-22-2019, 08:14 AM
 
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I知 very sorry for your loss. 😢
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Old 01-22-2019, 08:26 AM
 
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I am so sorry for your loss. You have my sympathy and prayers.
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Old 01-22-2019, 09:19 AM
 
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Kyotodeb, I'm so sorry for your loss. I have followed your journey and know that it has been a long and difficult road for both you and your amazing son.
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Old 01-22-2019, 09:24 AM
 
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Sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
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Old 01-22-2019, 09:40 AM
 
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I am so sorry for your loss. I know your heart is heavy. I hope you and your son Justin can find some comfort in the good memories you share of Don. Sending up prayers.
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Old 01-22-2019, 09:53 AM
 
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I知 so sorry. I know that nothing I can say will make any easier, but I知 glad you had so long together.
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Old 01-22-2019, 10:11 AM
 
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I'm so sorry to hear this news. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 01-22-2019, 10:46 AM
 
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I am sorry for your loss.
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Old 01-22-2019, 11:24 AM
 
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Praying for peace, comfort, and beautiful memories.
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Old 01-22-2019, 11:28 AM
 
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I知 so sorry. I know it was a long hard journey and I wish you peace now and joy in your future.
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Old 01-22-2019, 12:28 PM
 
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I'm sorry to read this sad news. Peace and prayers for you and your family.
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Old 01-22-2019, 02:01 PM
 
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I’m very sorry to hear about your beloved Don, Kyotodeb. May he Rest In Peace and may you and Justin find comfort in your memories of him.
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So sorry for your loss...
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May your memories of your wonderful life together bring you comfort, strength and peace.
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Old 01-22-2019, 02:47 PM
 
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My sympathies on the loss of your dear husband.
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Old 01-22-2019, 03:41 PM
 
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Hugs and love to you and Justin.
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Old 01-22-2019, 03:49 PM
 
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So sorry for your loss. I know you have many wonderful memories of your years together.
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Old 01-22-2019, 03:55 PM
 
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I知 so sorry for you and your family痴 loss! Thoughts and prayers are sent to you.
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Old 01-22-2019, 03:59 PM
 
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You're in my thoughts & prayers.
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Old 01-22-2019, 04:15 PM
 
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I am so sorry for your loss. Peace to all.
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Old 01-22-2019, 04:21 PM
 
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Peace, love, calm, positive. So, so sorry for your loss.
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Old 01-22-2019, 04:22 PM
 
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I'm very sorry to hear of your husband's passing. How lucky you were to have 43 years together.
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Old 01-22-2019, 05:20 PM
 
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Oh, I'm sorry to read of his passing. Hugs and prayers for you and your family.
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Old 01-22-2019, 05:43 PM
 
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I am sorry for your loss.
May the strength, courage and abiding love that carried the three of you along this journey continue to sustain you in the coming days, weeks, months.
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Old 01-22-2019, 05:47 PM
 
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I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers. How wonderful to have had 43 years together.
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Old 01-22-2019, 05:51 PM
 
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I am so sorry. You were both blessed to have each other, and your wonderful son. Sending you much sympathy and prayers...
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I am so sorry for your loss! Hug hugs to you!
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I知 so sorry for your loss. What a blessing that you and your son were able to care for your DH at home. Wishing you peace and comfort,
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I'm so sorry. Sending you wishes for strength and peace.
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So, so sorry. Praying for peace and comfort for you and your family.
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I知 so sorry...wishing you peace, strength, and time to reflect on your shared journey. You are an example of unselfish love and care Kyotodeb. Be gentle with yourself right now.
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Old 01-22-2019, 11:54 PM
 
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I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you.
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Old 01-23-2019, 06:15 AM
 
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And followed your journey. Thank you for sharing your experience. It will help us all. Thank you for sharing your Justin also. Love and prayers
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Such sad news
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I am so sorry for you loss.
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Old 01-23-2019, 06:29 PM
 
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So sorry to hear your dh has passed. You were a great caretaker and I know you and your son did all you could to make his last months comfortable. Please know we're all here on PT for you anytime you want to "chat." May you find comfort in your fond memories. Be good to yourself and give your son an extra hug from us too!
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My thoughts and prayers are with you. So very sorry.
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Condolences. Sending prayers.
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I am so sorry to hear of your husband's passing.
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Old 01-24-2019, 12:22 PM
 
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My heart is heavy for your loss. You can be proud that you were strong and supportive till the end.
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I am very sorry for your loss. You and Justin were loving caregivers. Prayers for comfort and strength. God bless.
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I am so very sorry to hear this Deb. You and Justin have been amazing caregivers of Don. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May your memories of special times together help to comfort you.
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Thoughts and prayers are with you. So sorry for your loss.
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I am so sorry to read about your husband's death. May God grant you peace and strength.
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