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Old 03-31-2020, 05:50 PM
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I havenít been posting. It was a difficult autumn.

My brother was hospitalized in early October and passed away in early November from complications caused by kidney dialysis. While I had been cleared as his kidney donor we were not able to find a hospital to do the transplant due to his health. I regret that I was never was able to see him during this time because I was taking care of my husband.

My husband collapsed in late September and was in 3 different hospitals for a total of 46 days. There were two rapid responses following surgery for the biopsy which determined he had AITL (angioimmunoblastic T-cell lymphoma, a very aggressive cancer). It was also discovered that he had MDS (myelodysplastic syndrome, a disruption of blood cell production) caused by his chemo for his 2017 stem cell transplant for PBL (plasmablastic lymphoma, aggressive B-cell cancer). In trying to get chemo started I witnessed an extreme failure of insurance in many delays and the desire to send him home even though he was totally immobile. He fought hard but on November 13th his body couldnít take anymore. We were married 44 years.

I decided earlier this month that it was time to come up for air and rejoin the world, such as it is right now with COVID-19.


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Old 03-31-2020, 05:53 PM
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Oh trasie. I have no words. You have gone through more than anyone should in such a short amount of time. My thoughts are with you!
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Old 03-31-2020, 05:54 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses. I am glad you came back to pt. Weíve missed you.
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Old 03-31-2020, 05:54 PM
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I am so sorry! That was a lot of loss in a very short amount of time. I am sorry that things are such a mess when you finally decided to rejoin the world, but hope you see beauty all around you and can enjoy this peaceful time at home.
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Old 03-31-2020, 05:54 PM
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So sorry to hear of your losses. I hope the good memories of both your husband and brother will comfort you.


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Old 03-31-2020, 05:55 PM
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trasie, Iím so sorry for your terrible losses. I wish you peace in the comfort of knowing you did so much for your brother and your husband of 44 years.
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Old 03-31-2020, 05:56 PM
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Oh my dear you really have had a horrible patch. Iím so very sorry for your losses. Iím glad to see you here.
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Old 03-31-2020, 05:59 PM
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I'm so sorry! You have been missed. (((Hugs)))
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:00 PM
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My heart is breaking for you! Wishing you peace as you move through the grieving process. God bless you!
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:04 PM
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((Trasie)) sending you many prayers of comfort. Thank you for sharing your update with us.


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Old 03-31-2020, 06:06 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses. My heart goes out to you. I truly wish there was something I could say or do that would make things better for you.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:07 PM
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I canít imagine such losses!

Iím glad that you are back with Is though!

You are in my prayers as you make your way through.....
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:08 PM
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You have certainly been dealing with a lot. I am so sorry about the loss of both your husband and your brother! I'll be praying for you and sending you loads of long distance, virtual hugs!
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:09 PM
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Trasie Iím so sorry for the loss of both you brother and your beloved husband. My heart breaks for you.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:10 PM
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((((trasie)))) I'm so sorry to hear of both of these losses. I can't imagine what you are going through. To lose your husband of 44 years and your brother all within a week or two is just beyond devastating. I'm glad you've come back to rejoin us, but I'm so sad. My heart is breaking for you.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:11 PM
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Everything you've been through recently must feel overwhelming. Please give yourself time and grace to recover. Meanwhile, I am sending deepest sympathy.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:13 PM
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trasie, I am so sorry to read all of your news. What sorrow! I am glad you are back to the site. Now, more than ever, we need each other. (((hugs)))
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:14 PM
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I am so sorry. You have endured tremendous losses. Iím glad you are able to join us. We are here for you.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:14 PM
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I'm so sorry for your losses. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:19 PM
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I am so very sorry for your loss.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:19 PM
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I am so sorry about your losses! I hope that even though the world is crazy now, you may find some joy!🌷
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:20 PM
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Oh, how awful to suffer two such painful losses in such a short time. I'll keep you in my prayers.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:23 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:26 PM
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Oh my gosh. I am so sorry. Sending you thoughts of strength.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:30 PM
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I am so, so sorry.
Sending virtual hugs
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:32 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses. May your memories remain on your heart of your DB & DH.
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You have been through so much
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in a short period of time. I am sorry for your losses. When this virus scare is over I hope you will get out and start enjoying life more. I wish you the very best.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:34 PM
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Trasie, Iím so sorry for what you have been through the past few month. I am glad you are back on PT. Weíve missed you!
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:35 PM
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Im sorry for your losses. Your PT family is always here. Sending you hugs and prayers.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:37 PM
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Wow. That is so much to deal
With, in such a short period of time. Taking it day by day is so important. Many prayers being offered on your behalf. We love you
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:41 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses. I canít imagine having to go through that. Iím glad to hear you ready to rejoin us on PT.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:44 PM
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Oh, trasie, my heart aches for all your losses. I canít imagine your pain. But I can feel your strength. You are in my thoughts and prayers are you heal from these life altering losses.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:47 PM
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Trasie--I'm so sorry! so much to be going through now!

I hope your heart heals soon--we are hear for you.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:48 PM
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I donít have words enough to properly express my condolences to you. Iím so very sorry.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:50 PM
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Iím so sorry for your extreme losses. Take care of yourself.
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Old 03-31-2020, 06:53 PM
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Holding you up in prayer.
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Old 03-31-2020, 07:06 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses. Peace be with you.
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Old 03-31-2020, 07:21 PM
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To lose both of your love ones so close together ó I can hardly imagine it. I am so sorry. Iím glad that you made it back here.
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Old 03-31-2020, 07:23 PM
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I'm so sorry for your losses. You've been through more than your fair share of sorrow! It is nice to have you back. You've been missed!
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Old 03-31-2020, 07:25 PM
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Trasie, I am so very sorry for your heart-breaking losses. May God ground you in His grace.
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Old 03-31-2020, 07:36 PM
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What does one say? Youíve suffered through two tragic deaths of those closest to you. May God bless you for being such a loving and caring wife for 44 years and a wonderful sister willing to give up her kidney for her brother. Welcome back to PT which has always been my happy place.
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Old 03-31-2020, 07:50 PM
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I am so sorry for both of your losses. We have missed you here on PT.
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Old 03-31-2020, 07:58 PM
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Oh my. Iím so sorry. Youíve been through such hardship. Please know Iím praying for peace and happiness in your life.
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Old 03-31-2020, 08:00 PM
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I had just looked to see when your last post was over the weekend. What devastating losses you have dealt with. My heart goes out to you and your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Oh I am so sorry. You have been through so much. Take care.
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Old 03-31-2020, 08:31 PM
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I'm so sorry for your losses. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 03-31-2020, 09:06 PM
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I'm so sorry for the pain you are feeling. Those are huge losses to grieve.
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Old 03-31-2020, 09:34 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses. That's a lot to take in such a short time. Sending you lots of gentle hugs
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Old 04-01-2020, 12:54 AM
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So sorry. Iím glad you are back on pt!
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Old 04-01-2020, 12:55 AM
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So sorry. Iím glad you are back!
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Old 04-01-2020, 01:46 AM
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You have been through so much in a short period of time. Please be gentle with yourself through the grieving process. I am really sorry for the loss of your loved ones. Sending hugs!
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I am so sorry for your losses Trasie. Iím also glad youíve decided to re-join us.
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Old 04-01-2020, 03:32 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss of your DB and DH. I can’t imagine how difficult it has been for you to lose them both so close together.
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Old 04-01-2020, 03:46 AM
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Trasie, my heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for your losses. I will pray that in the days ahead you will see some signs of hope for better times ahead. My thoughts are with you. Now that you're back your PT family can be here to support you. Take care.
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Old 04-01-2020, 03:49 AM
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I am so sorry for the loss of your brother and your husband. May you find comfort and peace. Hugs.
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Old 04-01-2020, 04:05 AM
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My thoughts and prayers will be for you in the passing of your brother and your husband. I remember reading your posts about your brother. My heart goes out to you in your losses. I pray for strength for you in the days ahead.
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Old 04-01-2020, 04:24 AM
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I'm so very sorry for the deep losses you have had.
I'm glad you have reached out to us again. May God be with you as you continue to heal.
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I'm so sorry for both of your losses. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 04-01-2020, 04:33 AM
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I'm so very sorry.
Praying for continued strength and peace for you now and in the coming months.
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Old 04-01-2020, 04:36 AM
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I am so sorry for your losses. May you find comfort and calmness in your prayers.
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Old 04-01-2020, 04:49 AM
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I am so sorry about your husband and brother. You've had so much to deal with. I'm glad you've returned here though at this tough time.
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Old 04-01-2020, 05:16 AM
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I am so sorry! I am sending my thoughts your way.
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Old 04-01-2020, 06:04 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Old 04-01-2020, 06:35 AM
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You have been through a lot losing a brother and a husband, especially since it all basically happened the same time. I'm sorry and offer condolences.
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Old 04-01-2020, 06:57 AM
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I am so sorry for your losses. Sending hugs. I am glad to see you back on PT.
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Old 04-01-2020, 07:06 AM
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I am so sorry for your losses. Sending hugs. I am glad to see you back on PT.
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Old 04-01-2020, 07:40 AM
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Deepest sympathies on the passing of your beloved husband and brother. Prayers for peace that surpasses all understanding.
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Old 04-01-2020, 07:43 AM
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I am so sorry. God bless you, you will be in my prayers.
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I canít imagine what you are going through. Deepest sympathy to you.
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Old 04-01-2020, 10:46 AM
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Iím so sorry.
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Old 04-01-2020, 11:20 AM
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What a hard thing to deal with, especially at this time. I know you must miss both of them terribly. I hope you have some support.... your PT family is here for you always! Sending prayers of strength, comfort, and peace to you.
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Old 04-01-2020, 11:47 AM
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so very sorry for your losses. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
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Old 04-01-2020, 12:33 PM
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Trasie, you've had such tragic losses close together. your head must still be spinning. I'm so glad you decided to join us again. There are many caring people here who can offer you support, wisdom and a bit of humor. We really are all in this together.
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I'm so sorry! That's a lot and I'm glad you decided to join us. Much love!
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We are all here for you whenever you need or want us!
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Old 04-01-2020, 04:09 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses. Sending prayers for comfort and calming thoughts.
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Old 04-01-2020, 04:53 PM
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You've been through so much. I'm so sorry! I'm glad you've taken your time to heal. I hope you're taking care of YOU! {{{HUGS}}}
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I have no words.
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Old 04-01-2020, 06:11 PM
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I am so sorry for the loss of your brother and your dear husband. I do remember you talking about being a kidney donor for your brother. You are in my heart and in my prayers. Please know that your PT family is here for you.

May God's peace be with you.

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Old 04-01-2020, 06:29 PM
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I have no words, except I am so, so sorry. Hugs to you, and thank you for coming back with us.
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