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Should I ask her?
Old 08-07-2022, 05:55 AM
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I have a work friend--she has the same job as me at a different location. I mostly see her at meetings and we usually sit together and chat. Well, at our last meeting she totally ignored me and didn't talk to me at all. I said hi and she nodded.

I wonder why? I looked back at our texts from last spring and they seemed ok. I never really have to talk to her again. I am scared, for some reason, to message her and find out why she's mad.

Should I contact her or let it go?

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Old 08-07-2022, 06:02 AM
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I would let it go. There could be a million different reasons why you only got a nod. Most likely it has nothing to do with you and she was probably preoccupied with other thoughts. Wait until you see her next time and see what kind of acknowledgement she gives you.
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Old 08-07-2022, 06:30 AM
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I would let it go and see how she is in future meetings. Most likely it's completely unrelated to you. If it continues, you could bring it up.

I know it's hard to be on that end though!
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Old 08-07-2022, 07:32 AM
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Send her a text wishing her a good school year and see where it goes. However she seemed that day may have nothing to do with you.
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Old 08-07-2022, 07:52 AM
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Will you see her outside of these meetings? Do you work with her in anyway that would make your job difficult?
If it becomes uncomfortable, I would address the issue. It could be that she has other issues going on in her life.


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Thank you for your responses!
Old 08-07-2022, 07:57 AM
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I was hoping you all would tell me to let it go! I'll do exactly that and try not to think about it. Thank you!
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