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Old 10-20-2019, 07:08 PM
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DD and BF had an argument last night, probably over her drug use (she is usually clean for a couple of days then uses again), and he asked her to leave. She is back living in a camper with the dealer. I called her last night for reassurance that she was safe and he was talking in the background the whole time. Her answers were short and sweet, no details, etc. I just don't feel good about this guy (didn't with the other one either but now he seems so much better and safer). Once again we told her she is welcome to come home (by text) but she doesn't want to.

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Old 10-20-2019, 07:32 PM
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I am so sorry. I will pray that she stays safe. My heart goes out to you.
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Old 10-20-2019, 08:29 PM
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(((hugs))) Oh that isn't what you want to hear. You are all in my prayers. Has the BF gotten out of drugs?
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Old 10-21-2019, 05:06 AM
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Sending you a huge hug.
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Wasn't it the BF who got her into using
Old 10-21-2019, 05:39 AM
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drugs in the first place? And was a predator on an underage girl? How awful that you even have to communicate with him. I feel so bad for your daughter and hope she gets the right treatment and meds soon. Also keeping you and your DH in my thoughts.


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Old 10-21-2019, 07:29 AM
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Such heartache for you and your family.

I am wondering how your daughter would react if you and your husband came for a short visit. Maybe meet for lunch and talk person to person about her situation. Assure her that you are not going to make her go home but you are there as caring parents and with all that she is going through you just want to visit. I know she is an adult and you cannot make her go home but at least you can see her in person. Just a thought.

She probably does not want to come home because now she can readily get drugs and do what she wants. Going home means she would have to probably go to rehab, work SO hard to stop the drugs, keep appointments, etc.

Thinking of you and your family. Drug addiction is AWFUL.
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Old 10-21-2019, 01:37 PM
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I am sorry you don't have better news. Sending continued prayers.
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Old 10-21-2019, 01:59 PM
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I am sorry to hear this Prayers for you all. I've been wondering how your sons are dealing with this?
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Old 10-21-2019, 08:19 PM
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Sorry to hear this. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
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