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Old 09-18-2019, 06:35 PM
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She was clean for 3 days and went on a meth binge last night. She is staying with a friend and is safe is what she told DH and me. BF will not let her stay there anymore. I don't even know how to respond to anything anymore other than to just put it in God's hands. She did tell me she is still keeping her appointments. We will see.

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Old 09-18-2019, 06:40 PM
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So sorry. Glad sheís still communicating with you. Meth is scary stuff. (((Nancy))))
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Old 09-18-2019, 06:42 PM
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These ups and downs must be so difficult Nancy. I'm sorry to hear of this latest development. ((Nancy and family))
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Old 09-18-2019, 06:45 PM
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Iím so sorry. Drugs can have a powerful hold on people, and it is so hard watching someone you love go thru that. I will continue praying for her and you!
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Old 09-18-2019, 06:46 PM
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Still praying and hoping for the best!


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Old 09-18-2019, 06:47 PM
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I am so sorry. I know your heart is broken over this latest event with your daughter. Sending hugs and prayers.
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Old 09-18-2019, 06:50 PM
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Been following along with prayers...my heart just aches for you.
At least there is some communication.
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Old 09-18-2019, 06:50 PM
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That makes me so sad. Addictions are just horrific. I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 09-18-2019, 06:59 PM
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for all, your daughter and all your family.
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Old 09-18-2019, 07:20 PM
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Many hopeful thoughts of you and your daughter!


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Old 09-18-2019, 07:27 PM
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Hoping things improve
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Old 09-18-2019, 07:56 PM
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Iím so sorry. I hope she continues to keep the communication open.
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Old 09-18-2019, 09:21 PM
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Sometimes putting it in Godís hands is all you can do. So sheís not with the BF anymore? Maybe thatís best at this point. Hope things improve soon.
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Old 09-19-2019, 02:15 AM
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I'm so sorry. (((Nancy)))
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Old 09-19-2019, 02:51 AM
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So sorry Nancy
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Old 09-19-2019, 03:26 AM
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Thinking of your family. So sorry she still can access drugs and still making harmful choices. I hope she is able or willing to choose a better path.
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Old 09-19-2019, 03:30 AM
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You all continue to be in my prayers! Sheís still communicating. She knows that you love her. God is with her. <<<hugs!>>>
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Old 09-19-2019, 04:10 AM
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Oh, that bites. I am so sorry.
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Old 09-19-2019, 04:20 AM
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That is such disappointing news. Thinking of you and praying that she somehow gets the help she needs.
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Old 09-19-2019, 04:59 AM
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Iím so sorry to hear. It is an emotional roller coaster that is incredibly difficult. Iím glad that your daughter is still keeping in touch with you, even though the news she shares isnít good.
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Old 09-19-2019, 05:06 AM
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Continuing to pray for her safety; and for strength and peace for you and dh - God has this, Nancy.
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Old 09-19-2019, 07:03 AM
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Nancy, I continue to think of you and your family and your DD. I am sorry for this disappointing turn of events. I am hopeful for a better outcome soon.
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Old 09-19-2019, 07:11 AM
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At this point, putting it in Godís hands might be all you can do. And praying God will grant you and your husband some respite as well. (((Hugs))))
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Old 09-19-2019, 07:30 AM
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I'm so sorry. Is there any way to get her into a residential rehab program?
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Old 09-19-2019, 07:41 AM
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Nancy, I'm still praying for all of you. Give this to God as you already have & let Him carry the heavy load. Remember we're all praying with you.
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Old 09-19-2019, 08:05 AM
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Prayers for all. May God hold you all in His hands.
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Old 09-19-2019, 08:15 AM
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Northern NY city that is overrun with meth, heroin, and other seriously dangerous drugs. I see what it does to these young people and it is scary. I hope she gets help soon. She is probably just trying to self-medicate. That piece of trash boyfriend of hers must be very proud of himself for contributing to the delinquency of a minor, using her, and then abandoning her as a young adult. What a creep.

I cannot imagine how difficult this is for you. Hoping for the best for your family.
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Old 09-19-2019, 09:38 AM
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I am so sorry for all you and your daughter are going through. I will continue praying for all of you.
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Old 09-19-2019, 11:06 AM
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I am sorry this is happening to your DD,but glad she is keeping in touch with you. Continuing prayers for DD and your family.
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Old 09-19-2019, 12:05 PM
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I hope that your DD finds her way!
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Old 09-19-2019, 12:22 PM
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It sounds like youíre handling it as well as can be expected. You have no control over what she does. Iím sorry, that sucks!
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Old 09-19-2019, 04:15 PM
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Giving this to god is the best thing you can do- take care of yourself!

Iím so sorry, Nancy
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Old 09-19-2019, 05:42 PM
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I am so very sorry. i can't even imagine how you are coping but I think you are right to leave it to God. It is the best thing you can do for yourself and your family.
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Old 09-19-2019, 06:45 PM
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Iím so sorry, Nancy. I pray she can someday beat this addiction and come home.
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Old 09-19-2019, 08:37 PM
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continuing to pray for your family
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Old 09-20-2019, 04:47 AM
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I'm so sorry to read this! Hope she gets into a rehab facility. Continuing prayers for you and your family!
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I am so sorry, Nancy
Old 09-20-2019, 04:05 PM
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I have a son that has put us on many roller coasters. Through much therapy I am at peace. I am in charge of my own behavior...and he his. Leaving it in God's hands is all you can do. My son knows we are here but will no longer bail him out. Saying this i know how hard it still is. I pray your daughter finds help and grows through it. I am so sorry. Hugs and strength to you.
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Old 09-20-2019, 05:57 PM
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Sending you and your DD strength to get through this!
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