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Old 01-14-2020, 06:32 PM
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Our week together was calm and enjoyable until the last day and a half when Stupid Head texted and said he didn't want her back. We got all that worked out and she insisted on going back. Even though he said she couldn't stay there anymore, she ended up there for the past several days. Tonight he sent a text to DH and said she moved. Where? She has no job or money. We are so worried. We have both texted and no response yet. No answer either to DH's call.
Sometimes I don't know how much more worry we can take.

Thanks for listening friends!

Nancy


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Old 01-14-2020, 06:35 PM
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Iím listening and Iím so sorry. This motherís heart is with you.
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Old 01-14-2020, 06:35 PM
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Breathe, Nancy. As much trouble as this girl has gone through, she keeps coming out relatively unscathed. Pray that continues and she finds herself on top again.

I didn't realize she was not working again.
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Old 01-14-2020, 06:40 PM
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Sending positive thoughts and hugs!
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Old 01-14-2020, 06:40 PM
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Kahlķa gave good advice. I always try to hope for, pray and assume the best until Iím told otherwise.


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So sorry
Old 01-14-2020, 07:00 PM
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It seems as if it is one step forward and two back. Prayers and hugs. Please keep us updated. Your PT family cares.
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Old 01-14-2020, 07:22 PM
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I'd be worried too. Can you file a missing person report with law enforcement?
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Oh Nancy I am so sorry
Old 01-14-2020, 07:27 PM
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It feels terrible when you have no control. I hope you hear good news from her soon. Praying for her safety and that communicates with you very soon.
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Old 01-14-2020, 09:59 PM
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I can't even begin to understand what you are dealing with! Deep breaths!!!

I hope your DD contacts you so you know she is alive and well!!

Prayers always!!

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Old 01-14-2020, 10:49 PM
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No advice, just sending prayers for you and DD.


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Old 01-15-2020, 02:52 AM
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(((hugs))) I'm so glad you had a peaceful visit but so very very sad for you that she insisted on going back to this man who messed her up and doesn't want her now. I agree with another poster that you see about filing a missing person report.
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Old 01-15-2020, 03:23 AM
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Iím so glad you had a nice visit. Prayers for her (and you) now. I hope you can locate her soon.
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Old 01-15-2020, 04:24 AM
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I'm sorry you're going through all this. I'm sending calm and positive thoughts to you and DD and hope you get some news soon.
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Old 01-15-2020, 05:18 AM
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I'm sorry. It sounded like she was doing well and holding down a job. I guess I missed some posts. I hope she gets in touch with you and is settled somewhere.
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You know that I totally know how
Old 01-15-2020, 07:53 AM
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you feel. Hoping for the best for her. That guy she is with is such a criminal. Nothing worse than watching our children ruin their lives and no way to help. I get it.
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Old 01-15-2020, 07:55 AM
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Hugs and prayers....
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Old 01-15-2020, 09:10 AM
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Sending prayers of peace to you, and protection to your DD. I totally get it. I remember being nervous when we hit a level spot with our kids...It often turned into a diving board in my mind. Trusting God for a good report.
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Worried.
Old 01-15-2020, 11:18 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you hear from her soon.
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Old 01-15-2020, 11:40 AM
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I have no words, but know that your PT Family is here to lift you up in prayers and listen to you vent. Hang in there and take care of yourself.
((( hugs )))
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Old 01-15-2020, 01:54 PM
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It's tough to see our children in precarious lifestyles. Even harder when it's gone on a long time. She has managed to figure things out and be OK. Hugs.
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Old 01-15-2020, 04:21 PM
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I wish this guy could be totally blocked from all your lives and devices!

Prayers and take deep breaths!
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Old 01-15-2020, 04:24 PM
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I'm so sorry, Nancy. Prayers for your peace and her safety.
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Old 01-15-2020, 04:50 PM
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I can only imagine how stressed you are. I am praying for your daughter's safety.
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Old 01-15-2020, 07:04 PM
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I guess I missed some of your posts. I thought she wasn't with that guy anymore. Meanwhile, remember that your PT family has your back as well as prayers.
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Old 01-15-2020, 07:23 PM
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I can only imagine how you and your DH are feeling. Prayers for her safety and that you hear from her soon. Prayers for you and your DH too.
XO Karen
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Old 01-15-2020, 10:40 PM
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Prayers for your DD and family.
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Old 01-16-2020, 07:39 PM
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for your daughter, you, and your DH. I hope that you will hear something from her soon so that you all will know that she is safe and unharmed.
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