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Old 04-24-2013, 07:43 PM
 
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Today while I was in the administration office, I overheard my principal state this to a fellow coworker (who is a male). "Go check out the hot young substitute teacher! She is gorgeous, and the 1st male teacher to bang her will be awarded dinner." By the end of the day, every male in my middle school building had watched her teaching. So, here is the question "What would you do?" I so want to report my principal for sexual harrassment, but he didn't say it to me, so I will keep my mouth shut.


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That is just
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so much more than disgusting...

I would report it. Do it anon if you must, but do it. That slime ball should not get away with that. I'm sorry you work for such an a$$.
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Old 04-24-2013, 07:58 PM
 
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Ewwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think I would have to report this! How unprofessional!
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Report it. Even if he wasn't talking to you, if you were able to overhear it--which you clearly were--that's a hostile work environment.
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I get furious just reading this. I agree with the others, report it, even if you have to do so anonymously.

I once had a principal just like that. When he arrived, he told the (few) male teachers that he was going to clean house by getting rid of all of the "ugly old hags and bringing in the hot chicks." He was gross and would say things to the guys about all female employees that were completely inappropriate. My male team partner told me all this in confidence, but did not dare report it.

He was as sexist as they came, and tried to provoke us "ugly old hags" so he could write us up for insubordination and eventual removal. He also tried to get really friendly with the young new hires, knowing they would probably not protest since they were probationary.

Luckily for us he misjudged one gorgeous new hire, and she reported him for sexual harrassment. It took some investigation during which many things came out, and after a few weeks we had a new principal.


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I am so disgusted! I agree- report him. Anonymously.
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Wow, knowing me, I would have called him
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on it right then and there, and in a very loud voice.

But then, I'm a mean old feminist pioneer and I just don't put up with that kind of ##### from anyone, I don't care who he is. I would have made him CRY!!
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I'm with Clarity!
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I came of age in the 70's! I would have yelled "I can HEAR you!" right then and there! I would have made him cry, too!

I don't know what I would do in your situation. Not knowing your district or the atmosphere there, I can't say one way or another. Is there a seasoned teacher there you can ask for advice?
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Old 04-25-2013, 04:00 AM
 
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Absolutely report it. No one gets to say that. Talk about an uncomfortable work environment! Makes you wonder what he has said out of ear shot.
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Report it!
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He is not allowed to do this, period!


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Old 04-25-2013, 06:01 AM
 
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He is not only unprofessional,but a poor excuse for a man. "Men"like that give all the others a bad name. Hope he isn't married,if he is I pity the woman who loves him.
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Old 04-25-2013, 07:26 AM
 
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I can't believe he would say this within earshot of someone. I'd have called him on it right away.
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Old 04-25-2013, 08:22 AM
 
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Not only was your principal so wrong in saying that, but every male that walked by her room. I would report that Ba$t@ard, in fact give me his name, your state, your district, and I will report him
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Old 04-25-2013, 02:54 PM
 
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Report him!
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Report Him!
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And shame on all the male teachers who went by her room! Ugh!
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Old 04-25-2013, 04:41 PM
 
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Yes, I think you definitely should report him!
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Old 04-25-2013, 05:08 PM
 
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Report it. That is absolutely not ok, and it doesn't matter that it wasn't directed at you personally.
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Old 04-25-2013, 05:20 PM
 
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That young sub is someone's daughter......you need to report him!!!!
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Old 04-26-2013, 02:01 AM
 
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Definitely report it! That is really terrrible. Who knows what damage he has done or could do to a young lady? And the fact that he is promoting that and all of the guys went to watch her teach is really disturbing. Who's to say that mob mentality won't kick in at some point and someone could end up hurt? I know it's seems like an extreme thing to suggest, but it wouldn't be the first time an environment like that led to disaster.

I completely understand if you feel the need to be anonymous though.
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You'd better believe ...
Old 04-26-2013, 02:43 AM
 
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... I would report it, and I would also report the accomplice who stood there, listened, and clearly did nothing except help the word get out to all of the other male teachers.
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And you should try to track down that
Old 04-26-2013, 06:58 AM
 
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sub and get her to sign a statement as to having had an unusual number of male "observers" in her room that day. This is disgusting beyond words.
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report it
Old 04-26-2013, 07:26 AM
 
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This should be reported because if he feels comfortable talking like this about his subs he is also talking like that about his teachers. Also it is encouraging this kind of talk and behavior with male staff members.
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Old 04-27-2013, 12:28 AM
 
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I'm pissed at just the thought. Disgusting.

Please, please report this @ss.
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