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Old 08-14-2019, 05:03 PM
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DD has been telling us that she and Stupid Head are now living at his mom's house. She sounded upbeat when DH spoke with her this weekend and sounds fine in her texts to me. Today on FB she posted that she was living in her car. Yes, I am on her FB page. I called but she texted me and said she was at work so we haven't spoken yet. I don't know what to believe but DH and I are frightened and upset. I am cannot even live with the thought of this possibility. My heart is breaking. I guess I am just venting but if you do have any words of advice I'll take them. If you are a praying person we would certainly appreciate your prayers,

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Old 08-14-2019, 05:08 PM
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I wish I had words of wisdom for you, as you always seem to have for others, but I do not. However, I will pray for her & your family.
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Old 08-14-2019, 05:16 PM
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Oh Nancy this breaks my heart!

I know you are not a fan of stupid head and some of DDs choices, but I always thought as long as she was safe and happy all was ok. Living in a car is not safe!!!

There's not much you can do, so I will pray for a good outcome!!
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Old 08-14-2019, 05:25 PM
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Thinking of your DD.
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Old 08-14-2019, 05:26 PM
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Oh Nancy. You have been on my mind recently and I was going to send you a message asking how everything was going.
I've prayed for God's guidance for you all and to hold you and your DD in God's light.


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Old 08-14-2019, 05:27 PM
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Iím thinking of you and your DD.
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Old 08-14-2019, 05:31 PM
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Your dd is in my prayers!
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Old 08-14-2019, 05:45 PM
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Oh Nancy...I'm sorry for this uncertain news! ((Nancy and family)) prayers sent .
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Old 08-14-2019, 05:45 PM
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Thinking of you during this difficult time. I hope you get good news soon.
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Old 08-14-2019, 05:50 PM
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Praying for your daughter and for you. Hopefully, she can set your mind at ease when you are able to speak with her.


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Old 08-14-2019, 05:51 PM
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I'm thinking of you during this stressful time and sending prayers.

This just breaks my heart for your DD and you as her parent.
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Old 08-14-2019, 06:05 PM
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Nancy, you're in a tough spot--and so is she. One piece of good news is that you are still in touch and, apparently, she has a job. May whatever difficulties she is going through right now lead her to make decisions that will bring her to increased stability in her life. And may you find peace.

When you talk, let her know that you love her and that you will always care about her.

If at all possible, try to pray for the man she has chosen to be with. I know that you have serious concerns about him and believe that he is not good for your DD. Nevertheless--or maybe because of this, he needs prayers also.
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Old 08-14-2019, 06:10 PM
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Prayers for your daughter's well being and for you. I hope you hear better news about her situation soon. I am glad she is staying in touch with you.
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Old 08-14-2019, 06:13 PM
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Nancy, I'm so sorry to hear that your DD is in a difficult situation. Perhaps this is just the tough time she needs to see that she can make different choices and improve her life. It might be her "rock bottom". Meanwhile, you're left to worry and wonder if she's OK. That's the really hard part of being a mom, isn't it? Sending you good thoughts your way for a positive resolution!
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Old 08-14-2019, 06:17 PM
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Iím sorry to hear this Nancy. Thinking of you and saying a prayer.
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Old 08-14-2019, 06:28 PM
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I agree with Renea- for some of us, weíve gotta learn everything the hard way. So sorry ❤️
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Old 08-14-2019, 06:45 PM
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Thinking of you and praying your dd is safe.
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Old 08-14-2019, 06:53 PM
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Prayers for comfort and safety.
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Old 08-14-2019, 07:15 PM
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Not much advice -- other than keep talking to her -- but I do have lots of prayers.
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Old 08-14-2019, 07:55 PM
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I am sorry. Sending up prayers for your daughter's safety.
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Old 08-14-2019, 08:40 PM
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You are in my prayers. Nothing hurts a mom's heart more than harm to her child.
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Old 08-14-2019, 09:02 PM
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I am so sorry that you are living with such stress. Prayers lifted for your DD and for you.
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Old 08-14-2019, 09:16 PM
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Praying for her safety. Hoping that she can relieve your worry when you speak with her.
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Old 08-14-2019, 09:23 PM
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Big prayers for her!! And you.
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Old 08-15-2019, 12:21 AM
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Sending prayers for you and your daughter.
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Old 08-15-2019, 12:55 AM
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Sending prayers for your daughter and your family.

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Old 08-15-2019, 01:21 AM
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So sorry for this news. It is so unsettling when we hear news about our kids, especially living far away! I'm thinking of you and her and sending good thoughts for her well being!
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Old 08-15-2019, 01:38 AM
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Oh no, that is so worrisome! I wonder if they broke up and that is why? Or are they both living in the car?
Did you ever get confirmation about if they were engaged? Please keep us posted. I am so sorry you have a big new worry on your mind.
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Old 08-15-2019, 02:28 AM
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I wish I had words of wisdom for you, but since I donít, I will lift you and your DD in prayer.
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Old 08-15-2019, 03:30 AM
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This is probably a crazy thing to do, but is there any way you can go there and see for yourself? I know it is far away, but it may give you peace of mind to know for sure.

Too bad you canít go and try to convince her to come back to Florida with you.
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Old 08-15-2019, 03:35 AM
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I am so, so sorry. My heart breaks for you and your family.
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Old 08-15-2019, 03:40 AM
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Oh, no.
Praying for safety for your daughter, and for strength and peace for you and DH.
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Old 08-15-2019, 04:25 AM
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Prayers for your DDs safety.
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Old 08-15-2019, 04:33 AM
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I hope you get better news soon. I'm glad she's keeping in touch with you. Being a mom is the greatest joy in life and sometimes the greatest stress.
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Old 08-15-2019, 05:15 AM
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Scary! Prayers for her safety!
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Old 08-15-2019, 07:04 AM
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Holding you in my heart.
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Old 08-15-2019, 07:06 AM
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I'm praying for her situation right now!
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Old 08-15-2019, 08:29 AM
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I hope it all turns out well for your DD. It must be so hard to be so far away.
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That is a scary thing to read.
Old 08-15-2019, 09:00 AM
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It may be workable in the summertime, but not in those New England winters. Hoping she is saving her $$ to get an apartment for fall. Do you think she posted that so you would see it and rescue her?
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Old 08-15-2019, 09:04 AM
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I'm sending prayers for you and your DD. Sorry to read about this.

My husband's daughter was in the same situation. It hurts deeply to hear that a loved one has made choices that put them there.
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Old 08-15-2019, 09:59 AM
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I am so sorry. I have no advice, but I really hope things get better soon.
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I am so sorry.
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No advice, but know I'm thinking of you and sending prayers.
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Old 08-15-2019, 10:41 AM
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It may be workable in the summertime, but not in those New England winters.
I believe they left New England and are now in Colorado, but the weather is pretty much the same if not worse in the winter depending on where they are.
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Old 08-15-2019, 11:15 AM
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I wonder as PP said that she may be calling out for help. Why else would she put it on a Facebook? I hope she is safe.
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I am so sorry to hear this, Nancy. I know how much this must worry you. You are in my prayers.
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Old 08-15-2019, 01:37 PM
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Sending prayers for your DD & Family.
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Old 08-15-2019, 01:54 PM
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Holding you all up in thoughts & prayers.
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