
11-04-2009, 05:19 AM
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First of all, the kids who leave the private school often leave because of bigger problems. Our kids who complete our program through 5th grade go into middle school and we almost always hear remarkable things about their success. When kids leave in any grade below that, it is usually because of some issue and the parents are unhappy anyway.
I know that there are some areas that my students are considered "behind" in, but there are many ways in which they are advanced. We take time to work on social problems when they arise, we do art and let the kids make choices about their day, how they spend their time, working with partners and cooperative skills. I know these things happen in public school too, but having taught at both, it's just a much bigger priority in the private school. We don't focus on testing AT ALL so that is not something that happens in our day. We just are doing other things and the kids are having other, really relevant experiences.
For example, almost all of my students read well, well above grade level and read with great comprehension and enjoyment. Even my lowest students, are reading RIGHT AT grade level. So, taking that into consideration, if you asked them basic questions about a passage, it's quite possible they would have no idea how to answer it. I have not specifically taught them how to do that. However, sit with them and talk about a story and they would excitedly tell you all about it! Yesterday they had library and HALF MY CLASS stayed inside during recess to read their books- and the weather was beautiful. I think this is a great thing.... but I bet you if you said something about "text to text connections" or "making inferences" or "give me a detail that demonstrates what the main idea of that passage is" they would look at you like you're crazy.
Also, at my school social studies and science are integrated and thematic. I can choose what to teach and we are not bound by certain guidelines. This allows me to use community resources, for example, when a play was at the children's theater about world war 2, I brought my kids to that play and we spent about 10 weeks studying that. But that means that there are things we probably WON'T do like memorize state capitals. If they test the kids on state capitals, they're screwed. But they have instead had a rich experience that was integrated, real, they saw a play and even had the actors from the play come to school and do a workshop! My students met my grandmother who told them about living through ww2 and what she remembered from the day pearl harbor was bombed. We went to a retirement home and talked to veterans and thanked them for their service. I think those experiences are the kinds of things that make private schools a choice for some parents, and are hopefully NOT good reasons to say the kids are behind. Parents who leave and worry about their kids begin behind, obviously didn't value the benefits the private school had to offer in the first place. For example, smaller class sizes, or religious studies, or certain experiences. I say whatever!
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